It shall be visited,
But not behind prison walls
Nor through oppression of their kin;
Men sanely led
Are not led by duress.
To know yourself and not show yourself,
To think well of yourself and not tell of yourself,
Be that your no and your yes.
The Tao Te Ching by Lao Tzu (The Witter Bynner version), Terebess Asia Online (TAO)